Friday, May 18, 2007
kk this i quoted from a friend's blog. hope that ppl would understand why i put this. sumtimes i feel this way sumtimes i dunt.. dunno why"what started out as a class became groups/gangs, then cliques, then among cliques there's pairs. now even among cliques and pairs, there's separation, internal conflicts. what is wrg with all of us? what the hell are frens for?
1st there's sk. i know he can be quite big mouth and AA at times, if not most of the time. and i seriously dun reli like him. but tat does not mean i have to hate him or dao him right? why do all of us need to be such childish fools? is ostracizing some1 tat fun? do all of u derive pleasure from talking bad and laughing bout ur frens behind their back? even if they are not ur frens or u dun consider them as ur frens? i admit there's times i too laugh about ppl behind their back, but everything jus stops there. there shld not be any continuation of such feelings outside of our little own gossip sessions.
then there's ys. i'm sure ys is not tat stupid to not notice tat he's being dao-ed by the girls. esp hui. why do u all hav to be so direct? yes ys can be quite irritating at times. but can u all throw aside ur personal prejudices and look at things from a neutral point of view? ys jus happen hav a low eq. Is tat wrg in any way? does tat constituted to the criteria of being dao-able? do u hav to hurt his feelings by doing tat? for wat? revenge? hatred? jus becoz he made suz cry? does he noe tat? what we have been doing is jus complaining behind every1, but do we reli try to solve it? NO, JUST DAO. tats the solution. even lp, who doesnt reli like ys, dun dao him. and to think tat u all were once 'close' frens. is tat wat frens are to u all? if there's a little thing wrg bout u or i dun like, then u cannot be my fren anymore. ever wonder wat wld happen if u all were to tell ys bout wat we think? grow up ppl... we're no longer little kids.
and now there's suz. an irritatingly over-sensitive suz. thats wat all of us see her as now. but seriously, is tat all to who she is? cant all of u sense her putting in so much hardwork to keep all of her frenships going. even with gd, even when she noes gd dun like her. mayb she's trying too hard. but is tat oso wrg? then wat is right? hui thinks she's irritating. and guess wat? DAO! wtf? yes i'm angry. even more angry than when i saw suz's blog. good friends? think again.. even when u apologise, u expect something in return. u dun wanna be the only 1 saying sry when u'r the 1 who start dao-ing her. now who do we side with? seriously i side with suz more. even if u'r my gf. i dun care who u are. when u'r wrg, u'r wrg. there's no way to justify it. stop denying and jus accept it. suz has the right to be angry/sad when her so called 'good friend' jus suddenly start dao-ing her, for no apparent reason. even if its me i wld be. and i'm sure any1 wld be.
why cant things jus go back to how they were last yr? when there's no segregation? i went to sat's cssp camp meeting. aft the meeting, the exco were having de-brief. jer told us bout the politics in the exco, how the non-acsi ppl refuse to join in and accuse them of segregating them. Now its not they refuse to join in, but we're shutting them out. we think we're the only normal 1 here. but in fact, we're acting like some bastards who start otracising ppl when we like.
i feel there's a need to say all these and let every1 of u noe. i'm sure no1 wish the situation to worsen. 1st there's econs/cll gang. then lan-game gang and non-lan game gang. then guys and girls+ys. then when things starts to get better when guys+girls, we got sk out, ys out. Now u all wan suz out too? when is it my turn? when can we ever be a CLASS again?
i'm saying this before its too late. before the class is no longer bonded tgr, but only consists of individual pursuing their own needs and wants. friends become foes, and foes become strangers. 10 years down the road, do u all want to see each other and think he/she is just some stranger whom i studied with 10 years ago? or work tgr to eradicate all these negative feelings about one another and tgr create a friendship that will last forever? every1 have grew alot since last year, but i dun seem to see any1 mature enough to handle such little friendship problems. its really time to grow up every1. everything we say and do have an effect on some1 else. Please think about others before you do something, we no longer live for ourselves.
think about what i've said. Without friends, we are nothing."
im realli gonna praise him for saying all this.... this thing is happening to my class, and yet im one of those who dao ppl. quite disappointed wif myself though.
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